The right woman

Most men feels marriage suffocates,they feel agreeing to marry is being on lockdown and knockdown but there’s no truth in this if only as a guy you marry a Friend and a wife. 
A friend is someone that choose you regardless of your flaws,someone that understands your smiles,frowns,laughter and sadness,a person who has gone through crazy times with you,a gist/gossip mate,one you have impacted and has done same.                           WhileA wife is a person that completes you,shes that person that’s behind your smiles and looks,she is a multipurpose personality,someone that can represent you in your absence and still be herself,one whose daily prayer starts with you and ends with your children,she’s that person whom God says once you find her then you becomes eligible to obtain his (God) favour.    But how can you find these qualities in a person?1. You need God2. Outside beauty isn’t just enough 3. Qualifications/ high standards/ Classes ain’t just enough 4. Assumptions not enough 5. Fashion wise is not enough.6. Hot sex not always enough Marry who gives you peace of mind,a person that shares your vision and have a goal even in difficulties,someone who amazes you,someone who can stand by you come storms and rain not a person that understands the word divorce. A wife is always willing to learn…    Note: there’s no marriage without issues but the ability to understand each other is the success of marriage. So stop running from getting married