Parenting is a job!

Marriage does not end only between a man &woman,it consist of Man,woman and children,which means marriage is Family. As a man never think it’s only the woman that has the responsibility to care for the kids,the moment you think so then you’re selling your right of parenting.Parents are caretakers and not the owner of children. What time do you spend with your kids and what do you discuss with them. Many of us parents leaves our duty as caregivers to our kids in the hand of  nannies. Does your nanny tell your kids about God??? Know this as parent you will give account of this kids on judgement day            Children are gift from God,a gift means something that is given from an owner to another either for compliment or merit. But this gift of God is given with conditions and this terms must be followed 1. Train up a child in the way he should grow so when his old he will not depart from it. It’s the responsibility of both Father and woman to bring up their child in a Godly manner. As parent if you can’t teach your child the necessities then the world would do that for you. Parents are known to be the first God to their kids,whatever you deposit in them with time it will spring up.2. Suffer not the little ones to come to me: Many parents thinks they own their children and made the kids know their relatives more than God. As parent when do you tell your children that God is their Father,how often do you tell them children Let us pray,let’s go to church,what was today’s topic,baby can you tell me what john 3:16 says. There are stages in children’s lives first when they have no choice and secondly when they have choice. Note: Its the foundation of a man that can give him assurance 3. Provoke not your child to anger: There are so many kids out there suffering for what they didn’t do but were forcefully punished,while I was growing up my mother never gives you a reason to explain, as long as an adult gives report about her kids,my mom will flog you even while you ain’t at fault,this became a threat used by the neighbors on us,until a day something happened and she asked for an explanation,after the explanation she found out that we weren’t at fault,from that moment she would always want to hear from us. Make that kid God has given to you comfortable around you,let them see you as a friend.