The right woman
Most men feels marriage suffocates,they feel agreeing to marry is being on lockdown and knockdown but there’s no truth in this if only as a guy you marry a Friend and a wife.
A friend is someone that choose you regardless of your flaws,someone that understands your smiles,frowns,laughter and sadness,a person who has gone through crazy times with you,a gist/gossip mate,one you have impacted and has done same. WhileA wife is a person that completes you,shes that person that’s behind your smiles and looks,she is a multipurpose personality,someone that can represent you in your absence and still be herself,one whose daily prayer starts with you and ends with your children,she’s that person whom God says once you find her then you becomes eligible to obtain his (God) favour. But how can you find these qualities in a person?1. You need God2. Outside beauty isn’t just enough 3. Qualifications/ high standards/ Classes ain’t just enough 4. Assumptions not enough 5. Fashion wise is not enough.6. Hot sex not always enough Marry who gives you peace of mind,a person that shares your vision and have a goal even in difficulties,someone who amazes you,someone who can stand by you come storms and rain not a person that understands the word divorce. A wife is always willing to learn… Note: there’s no marriage without issues but the ability to understand each other is the success of marriage. So stop running from getting married
Marry who completes you!
Don’t be envious of someone’s Marriage Life because you can only access their outside appearance and not the inside displays. For the fact that MR&MRS SAMUEL are always smiling while outside doesn’t mean the smile started from their home. Desiring another man/woman who are married may not work for you reason is marriage requires compatibility,it needs understanding,submission and patience. Marriage needs a person that completes you and not the full version of who you are, I mean you are A so why do you need another A,you need someone that is calm while you shout,a person that can add to you and correct your assumed right parts,a partner who knows what you don’t know. There’s no marriage without disagreement,complains,painand imperfections though Love exist yet its never enough. Marriage is a school that no one becomes a graduate!!!!
Why God created woman
Never marry a man who thinks his doing you a favour of marrying you. From the beginning of Marriage which started with Adam & Eve,it was written that immediately Adam encountered Eve he said ‘this is the bone of my bone the flesh of my flesh for she shall be called WOMAN for out of man came her.’ The main purpose why God created Woman is to be an Helpmate to the man,though man had all knowledge,he speaks to any nature of animals and they responded and was a controller of the heavens but he was empty and alone.
According to the bible, man was granted that favour of completion and the woman with fulfillment.As a lady you were never created as an object of pity,the truth remains that without a wife in a man’s life he is incomplete. Remember it’s not a woman that finds favour when she get a man rather it the man who finds favour in having a wife although its a thing of pride to ladies. Marriage is best when both couples discovers their values and appreciates one other. As a lady the moment you enter into marriage with a man who feels he is all fulfilled and thinks you have nothing to offer aside kids production,then know that he may never seek for your opinion or make use of it and his wrongs you can’t question.
What could be the reason why most women still enters such marriage,1. Many ladies want a book by all means without caring about the content 2. They tell themselves ‘as long he can fund for me and take care of my family,is not my business even if he doesn’t come home.3. Frustration 4. Fame What could make some men feel they are rendering help to the ladies by marrying them1.most ladies are very dependant 2. Some ladies aside sex,kids they really have nothing to offer(good on bed not on wealth/growth matters).Marriage is for both genders benefit not just one.
Parenting is a job!
Marriage does not end only between a man &woman,it consist of Man,woman and children,which means marriage is Family. As a man never think it’s only the woman that has the responsibility to care for the kids,the moment you think so then you’re selling your right of parenting.Parents are caretakers and not the owner of children. What time do you spend with your kids and what do you discuss with them. Many of us parents leaves our duty as caregivers to our kids in the hand of nannies. Does your nanny tell your kids about God??? Know this as parent you will give account of this kids on judgement day Children are gift from God,a gift means something that is given from an owner to another either for compliment or merit. But this gift of God is given with conditions and this terms must be followed 1. Train up a child in the way he should grow so when his old he will not depart from it. It’s the responsibility of both Father and woman to bring up their child in a Godly manner. As parent if you can’t teach your child the necessities then the world would do that for you. Parents are known to be the first God to their kids,whatever you deposit in them with time it will spring up.2. Suffer not the little ones to come to me: Many parents thinks they own their children and made the kids know their relatives more than God. As parent when do you tell your children that God is their Father,how often do you tell them children Let us pray,let’s go to church,what was today’s topic,baby can you tell me what john 3:16 says. There are stages in children’s lives first when they have no choice and secondly when they have choice. Note: Its the foundation of a man that can give him assurance 3. Provoke not your child to anger: There are so many kids out there suffering for what they didn’t do but were forcefully punished,while I was growing up my mother never gives you a reason to explain, as long as an adult gives report about her kids,my mom will flog you even while you ain’t at fault,this became a threat used by the neighbors on us,until a day something happened and she asked for an explanation,after the explanation she found out that we weren’t at fault,from that moment she would always want to hear from us. Make that kid God has given to you comfortable around you,let them see you as a friend.
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